Which Am I?

One of Pastor Philip's joke this morning: How do you tell a Jewish mother from an Italian mother??

Italian mother: "Eat it, or I'll kill you!"

Jewish mother: "Eat it, or I'll kill myself!"

I turned to Wey and asked him if I'm a Jewish or Italian mom. He rolled his eyes and said, "Of course you are______!"

So, to see how many of you really know me, tell me what you think I am. Don't be afraid, it's a 50% hit so you'll very likely get it. Either way, it will tell me if you think I am a) sacrificial but manipulative (Jewish) or b) resolute but domineering (Italian).